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Lesson 9: Don’t Win Arguments, Unravel Them

Foster healthier dialogue during conflict. Replace reactivity with empathy when disagreeing.

Have you ever tried to unknot a delicate necklace that’s been jumbled in a drawer for too long? Tug too hard, and you'll tighten the knot. But a gentler touch can loosen the loop. Communication expert Jefferson Fisher believes arguments work the same way. If you come in forcefully, you’ll only deepen the tension. But if you approach with curiosity and a…

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